Happy 2013

Seems like eons since I last posted anything – but it hasn’t really been that long.

I’m so glad the “happy holiday” season is over.  I may try to escape it all next year by running away somewhere…..maybe even completely by myself!

Christmas decorations are now down, outside Christmas lights turned off and that’s it for another year.  I managed to come down with my annual nasty chesty viral cold last week – and in spite of laying low since last Thursday, it isn’t getting any better.  I can usually count on 10 days of misery with these darned things.

On the brighter side – I am going out today (to share my germs) to see Billy Elliot at the NAC – tickets have been purchased for months now – so I’m not going to miss this.  I’m going armed with kleenex and cough lozenges – and of course, it’s snowing AGAIN.   I hope I’m past the stage of sharing this bug with my friends.

I wish all my friends and family nothing but the best for 2013.

Sue

 

Just Bitchin’ – 2012 in review

The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepared a 2012 annual report for this blog.

Very cool – stats for my blog!

Here’s an excerpt:

The new Boeing 787 Dreamliner can carry about 250 passengers. This blog was viewed about 1,200 times in 2012. If it were a Dreamliner, it would take about 5 trips to carry that many people.

Click here to see the complete report.

Just Bitchin’ – Christmas

Yesterday, I started to blog about how Christmas really makes me feel but it was far too depressing to publish and not at all fair to my blog-friends to post such a thing at this time of year.

Instead, I’m putting on my happy face and wishing all of my blog-followers a very Merry Christmas!  I hope that Santa brings each of you exactly what you dreamed for, that your tummies are filled with yummy turkey and Christmas treats and that you come and go safely from your Christmas celebrations.

MERRY CHRISTMAS

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Just Bitchin’ – We’re losing our Healthcare Services

I had an appointment early this week for the dreaded “annual physical”.  My doctor is usually pretty upbeat but she was not a happy camper.  She advised me that the OMA had concluded negotiations with the Province in terms of what services doctors will provide and how they will be paid for them.

WE ARE IN BIG TROUBLE.

I got a woman’s perspective, of course – but here are a few examples:

  • Tests like PAPS will now be done only every 3 years
  • Tests like Bone Density are also less frequent as well but I can’t remember – I think now it’s 5 years
  • Quarterly diabetic checks will now be paid at 2/3 former rate – in other words, spend less time with each patient

The list was a long one and I don’t remember all she said.  What I did hear is that we will get significantly less service and the doctors are not happy about that.

It seems to me that reducing the amount of preventive medicine currently being done is absolutely the wrong way to go about reducing healthcare costs.  This will only cost more money down the road if health issues aren’t detected early and/or managed.  Treating cervical cancer MUST cost far more than a PAPS test.  Treating the associated illnesses that can come from diabetes that isn’t properly managed MUST cost far more than the quarterly visits to your GP.  This seems so very shortsighted to me.

Worse still – no alternatives are being offered.  If something is no longer going to be provided by our doctors – nor covered by OHIP, we should be able to get these services some other way and pay for them.  This is my body.  If I can’t get adequate medical care from my GP (and not through any fault of hers), I need to have alternatives.  Where are they?

I immediately sent an email to my MPP – after all – that’s where these decisions are made.  I hope everyone who reads this (and lives in Ontario) does the same thing.  This is really hitting too close to home.

Now I am afraid.

Just Bitchin’ – Family Weddings

The last of my 3 nephews was married last weekend.  Though not the youngest of the three, he certainly held out the longest – and, it appears, for good reason.  He was waiting for the one person who could make him happier than he ever dreamed possible.

Two beautiful young ladies  came along as a package deal – and a dog.

Let me tell you about the depth of this man’s commitment.

  •  Just days before the nuptials, said dog had a run-in with a skunk – and I mean a faceful of direct hit type of run-in.  It was cold outside.  The groom-to-be spent hours in the cold backyard soaking up noxious fumes and sponge-cleaning the dog with just about every “I’ve been skunked” remedy known to man!!  The bride-to-be wisely stayed inside and kept the warm water coming.  So the story goes – that kind of direct hit smells nothing like a skunk – rather it smells like putrid burning rubber!
  • One of said young ladies has a significant allergy to cats.  My nephew had 2 much loved kitties.  He opted to give them up!! and  Aunt Sue found a home for them with one of my neighbours.  They are giving their new owners a run for their money – but are doing fine!
  • He wore an orange shirt for the wedding!
  • He will now have to endure a 60-90 minute commute – each way – to and from work.  Donations of books on tape will, in all likelihood, be appreciated!
  • His new M-I-L lives just down the street!

The bride showed respect for her about-to-be husband’s passion and career by walking down the aisle to the original theme from Hockey Night in Canada!  I’m sure that was a first!

All kidding aside – the photographer (a family friend) said it best when he described the event as a warm and wonderful gathering of friends and family that just happened to have a wedding in it.

It was a great weekend!

 

Just Bitchin’ – My Rant to City Hall about Plasco

It wasn’t until an article in yesterday’s paper that I realized that the Plasco process – should it even work – WILL NOT HANDLE GREEN BIN TYPE GARBAGE.  I’m guessing 90% of the people out there don’t know this.  It is rarely verbalized.
We are just beginning the program of what I call “green-bin-encouragement/enforcement” – and have no idea if this will be successful.  Certainly allowing the same number of pieces of garbage as was the case before bi-weekly collection won’t help things along.  If the program does not result in reduced “garbage” – and I’m suspecting reduction targets will be far from met – what is so darned good about the Plasco project if it won’t/can’t handle anything that “should” be put in a green bin???  Somebody will still have to sort everything  in the “garbage pails/bags” and something will have to be done with what Plasco won’t process.  Where is the cost savings?  How does this even begin to make sense?
I would be extremely happy to see my tax dollars going to a research project that was prepared to handle ALL GARBAGE.  Another one that picks and chooses what it defines as garbage – FOR THE BIRDS……and our fair Council is about to sign a contract with Plasco!
Has anyone had a good chat with the city of Gatineau to discover how they make it work to do one pick-up and sort things themselves?  Is it too late to stop this train and do something that actually makes sense?
Sue

Just Bitchin’ – The “Manoeuver”

I learned something valuable the other day and thought I would share!!

For two weeks I had been experiencing vertigo – not all the time – mostly when I went to lie down, roll over in bed or sit up.  It’s a horrible feeling of your world turning upside down…….not unlike those foolish younger days when one had far too much to drink, and went to bed only to find yourself with what I called “the black whirlies”……..one hand on the wall, one foot on the floor……you get my drift.

The same thing had happened to me (vertigo, not the black whirlies) about a year ago and it eventually disappeared on its own.  At my annual visit with my ENT (Ear/Nose/Throat) doc – we hearing impaired folk usually have one of these – I mentioned it and he told me to call if it ever happened again – that he could do something about it.

The cause of the vertigo is little bits of calcium that get stuck in the wrong place – could be as a result of something as simple as rolling over in bed.

So I called – they squeezed me in – and thus I learned about “the manoeuver”.

This usually very gentle man pushed the patient chair down to a flat position (I’m still sitting up), took my face in his hands and literally flung me down to a horizontal position with my face turned to the right, telling me to keep my eyes OPEN.  OMG.  I thought I was done for.  Not only did the world spin violently (he’s lucky I didn’t upchuck), but my eyeballs were quite literally bobbling around to the extent I thought they might pop out of my face!!  He is staring into these bobbing eyes – apparently in doing so – he can determine which ear is the culprit.  Next he advised me we were going to very quickly turn my head to the other side, facing the left.  The next phase of the process involved a “flip-over” (yes, picture it) so that my face was looking down.  I wouldn’t have thought it possible to make these sorts of moves in a chair – but, he had a hold of my head so there wasn’t much choice.

The last instruction was to refrain from bending over AND from lying down for 24 hours.  The days of hip replacements came in handy – my grabber served to put the cats’ bowls on the floor – and to pick up the things I dropped (one drops everything when you aren’t supposed to bend over) – but sleeping in an upright position was a challenge.  I started off in my la-z-boy chair with pillows and a blanket – and I think I slept about an hour or so.  Then I headed off to bed with 6 pillows of different shapes and sizes propping me up to ensure I didn’t roll over and lie down which by this time, I so wanted to do.  That netted me another couple of hours.

The next day eventually came – and, since I hadn’t yet fulfilled my 24 hour mandate, I still had no idea if “the manoeuver” had worked or not.  I wasn’t looking forward to a second visit to repeat the process.

Needless to say I went to bed early that night, first gingerly rolling from one side to the other……then with a bit more gusto….until I was fairly convinced the vertigo was gone.  I repeated the tests the next morning – successfully.  IT WORKED!  I was so happy I called my ENT’s admin assistant to tell her and she related stories of people who came in bouncing off the walls (in far worse shape than I was) and who left walking upright and smiling having experienced “the manoeuver”.

After relating this to a friend, she told me this happens to her on occasion, and that she somehow manages to shake her head and throw herself down on her bed in such a way that her vertigo goes away.  Brave lady!

So – now you know.  If you experience vertigo, call your ENT – or try the self-treatment my friend uses!

Sue

 

Just Bitchin’ – The Definition of “Busy”

It amuses me to listen to (and experience) the varying definitions of being busy.

When I was working full time for IBM, I spent an average of 10 hours per day at work (and believe me, they expected and extracted more than a pound of flesh), an hour or more per day getting to and from work, managed to get appointments and errands squeezed in, spent Saturday mornings with my Mom and still had a social life.  How on earth did I ever do this week after week after week?  Yes, I was busy – but everything got done.

I had friends and acquaintances who worked in jobs (I won’t say where) who lived by the clock (or were paid overtime), took their sick days as a given, had coffee breaks morning and afternoon, never missed the bus home – and they felt they were run off their feet busy.

Now I’m retired – well more or less.  I work part-time for 6 real estate agents – but luckily the work I do can usually be done on my own time, when it suits me.  Even so, when I look at my calendar and see an appointment, social event, meeting, class, bridge game, etc – JUST ONE on each day of the week – I think to myself – I have a busy week.  When it gets to two items on several of the days of any given week, I feel too busy and start to balk, wanting more “me-time”.

How can BUSY have so many different definitions?

I can also tell you, from personal experience, the more you have on your plate, the more you can get done.  When you have spare time, the “manana” factor kicks in and nothing gets crossed off the list!

What is your definition of busy??????

Sue

Just Bitchin’ – Monday Morning

What is it about this morning that has given me a huge case of the blahs??

Could it be the fact that it was still dark at 8am this morning???  I don’t like the delay in changing our clocks!!….at least not at this end of the deal.

Maybe it is also because I just booked an appointment to have my snow tires installed – now that IS depressing – not only because of the very thought of snow and winter – but these are brand new snow tires – and oooohhhh – the cost!! – certainly more than I was expecting!

Am I subconsciously depressed at the thought of biweekly garbage collection?  Actually, I get somewhat depressed (or angry) when I think of just about anything related to our municipal government and how our fair city is managed……so no, I don’t think it’s the garbage nonsense.

When I read in this morning’s paper that our City contracts to Quebec truck drivers to handle snow removal while Ottawa truck drivers are looking for work – I saw RED.  What a hypocrite is our Mr. Watson.  He wants a casino in downtown Ottawa to keep the gambling money from going to Quebec, yet his own organization is handing out contracts to Quebec trucking companies.  There is something wrong with this picture – but then, the picture has always been hung slightly off-kilter on the wall!!

For sure, I’m really angry about there being no NHL hockey.  There isn’t much else to watch on television these days.  I blame the players and the owners (well, at least the 6 or 7 team owners that form part of Bettman’s pack) equally.  The fans and the other service providers who support the teams don’t seem to matter.  The very small-market teams most of this argument seems to be about are going to go under all on their own – because of the lockout.  If there isn’t sufficient interest when there are games to be watched – the powers that be surely can’t be silly enough to think that interest will grow if there is no hockey at all!!

Good thing I’m going out to play bridge today – that will be fun and will lift me out of this fog I’m in.  Thank goodness for friends.  There is NOTHING about my group of friends that makes me feel down – in fact thinking of some of them is enough to make me smile, and maybe even chuckle.  There!  That’s done it.  I feel better already.  Onwards!

Just Bitchin’ – Looking for the Positives

My “blogging mentor” (and website designer/developer extraordinaire) told me that I should balance my blogs so that people don’t get tired of listening to me rant and whine all the time.

Here is my attempt to find something positive in the things that are irritating me these days:

  1. No NHL hockey:  I’m certainly watching less television and that probably means I’m saving money on hearing aid batteries!
  2. Basic Garbage moving to Bi-Weekly Pickup: I won’t have to lug the garbage can to the curb every week and I won’t have to chase it down on windy days as often!
  3. Dalton McGuinty Resigns:  YEAHHHHHHH!  Break out the champagne!  This one is long overdue.
  4. Dalton McGuinty Prorogues Parliament:  While this one really irritates the heck out of me – I suppose the good news is that there won’t be a Dalton copy-cat interim leader simply carrying on the party line insanity.
  5. Graham Fraser is unhappy about the level of bilingual services offered in Ottawa. I’m so tired of the whole bilingual thing – and I’m even more tired of paying for it!  Let’s scrap the program and save a bundle!
  6. LRT Price Tag going UP UP UP:  At the rate this City Council moves on major programs – I’m guessing I’ll be long past taking public transportation by the time this one is up and running!

What do you think?